Saying yes to yourself today triggers a positive energy shift.

A Journey into the Limiting “When-Then” Mindset

The “when-then” mindset often presents itself subtly in our thought processes, gradually shaping our behaviors and decisions. It convinces us to constantly defer our dreams and desires, making us believe that fulfillment is contingent on some future event or achievement.

What we often fail to recognize, however, is that this mindset fosters a cycle of perpetual waiting, halting our progress and dampening our potential for joy and satisfaction. This pattern of thinking could be the very hurdle that’s obstructing our path to a truly fulfilling life.

By identifying and consciously breaking away from this self-limiting mindset, we pave the way towards living a life aligned with our true desires, starting in the present moment.

Unraveling the “When-Then” Pattern

The “when-then” mindset is a mental trap that involves deferring your dreams and aspirations until specific, often elusive, conditions are met. It’s the thought process that convinces you to wait until you’ve lost weight to buy new clothes or until you’ve earned enough to take a vacation.

How often have you dreamt about something, maybe it was taking a month long vacation, treating yourself to a shopping spree or buying your dream car, only to hold back because circumstances weren’t ideal or you felt undeserving? The “when-then” pattern can be an infinite loop of waiting, stealing from us the happiness that could be experienced right now.

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Breaking Free from the “When-Then” Mindset Loop

The power of breaking free from this pervasive pattern is key. Imagine leaning into your desires, taking that much-needed break, indulging in personal treats, or finally making that long-anticipated purchase of a dream car. Such simple acts could spur significant transformations, amplifying your joy and reshaping how you interact with the world.

The “when-then” pattern puts our lives in a perpetual state of pause, hindering self-fulfillment. It’s essential to let go of this immobilizing mindset, advocating instead for a life richly experienced in the present, where our desires aren’t contingent upon achieving an elusive “ideal” moment or circumstance.

Embrace Success in the Here and Now

Recognizing one’s accomplishments is crucial. Success isn’t solely about tangible achievements, but also about the inherent sense of fulfillment. Unfortunately, our focus often drifts towards unattained goals, causing us to overlook our past triumphs.

Make a conscious effort to value your achievements, no matter how small they may appear. Embrace your desires and start actualizing the life you envision, rather than waiting for the “right” moment or conditions.

Bridging the Gap to Your Desires

The 'when-then' mindset keeps our lives in a state of pause.

Start living the life you dream of by embracing your desires in the present, instead of holding off for ideal conditions. Whether it’s planning that dream holiday, allowing yourself some rest, or purchasing clothes you love, irrespective of perceived imperfections, the key is to act now.

Rather than delaying your aspirations to an uncertain future, make decisive steps today that bring you closer to your ideal life. Don’t postpone seeking help or support like coaching or therapy for a “perfect” moment.

Such delays often prolong the path to desired outcomes, while immediate action can fast-track your journey towards your goals.

Say Yes to You Today

Take time today to identify what you’ve been keeping on hold due to limiting beliefs or a sense of unworthiness, and start to initiate steps to integrate those things into your life. By saying yes to yourself today, you can trigger a substantial shift in your energy and positively influence your interaction with the world.

The Collective: Your Journey to Self-fulfillment

Are you looking for an intimate group coaching experience designed to support women who want to develop unshakable confidence so they can accomplish their biggest goals? The goals that you’re not sure you can achieve because:

  • You’re feeling overwhelmed with all the things.
  • You’re lacking energy, focus, and keep getting into all your excuses.
  • You’re procrastinating because deep down you’re your own worst critic and nothing feels good enough.
  • You want things the way you want them, but are realizing that trying to get things perfect is exhausting you.
  • As much as you want more, you don’t know how you can do more.
  • You almost never make yourself a priority.

Introducing The Full Frontal Living™ Collective. This program is designed to help women transcend their struggles and live the life they desire, offers participants the chance to work closely with Lisa Carpenter and connect with others on a similar journey. The Collective provides the opportunity to bring peace, ease, and energy into your life and say yes to the life you’ve always wanted. Join the Waitlist here.


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